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New Year – Not New Plan :)

calvinHappy 2012 everyone !!!

My grandmother always reminds me that January 1st is NOT the Jewish New Year, and shouldn’t be celebrated, but to me, I always felt it’s the perfect opportunity to take a small breath, look at the calendar and see where we are headed and where we are going.

So, 2012 – what’s on the To Do List for this year?

To find out the BEST New Year’s resolution, all you need to do is ask yourself the following question:

What do I complain the most about?

Simple yet effective.

Complain about your weight?

Complain about how stressed you are?

Complain how frustrating your job is?

Well there ya go!

Now you know what needs working on.

I asked my husband a few weeks what I complain about – and obviously he didn’t want to answer. He was scared it was one of those “Do I look fat in this?” type questions but I reassured him I really wanted to know. It wasn’t much of a surprise when he told me the one or two things I bring up the most. Good! Now I know what I need to work on.

This year, I don’t really plan to begin any new resolutions. Instead, my plan is to keep doing what I know to be right and keep at it. Obviously it isn’t always easy, and there are oh so many bumps along the way, but the point is to keep going. Finding my pitfalls and trying to work around them (or through them) will help ensure my success.

What’s That On My Plate?

So once again – I’m focusing on stepping up my healthy eating. Each time I do my detox I feel more energetic and healthier. And with each time I do the program, it kick starts my healthy eating (its seriously awesome people!)

I hope to incorporate more raw foods in my menus. Even if my plate has plenty of vegetables on it, it doesn’t come close to eating RAW – raw foods are ALIVE with nutrients, vitamins and minerals and nothing beats them. I noticed this on Shabbos when I looked around the table and saw everything I had prepared was cooked. Imagine how thrilled my husband was when I told him we’d be eating more raw this year J (and more vegan) hehe.

My neighbor Meir, is very knowledgeable in eating locally and sustainably. This is not my strong area so it’s always good to have a chat with him. He’s been recommending how to start my organic garden, where the best Farmer’s Markets are and he’s introduced me to like minded people. Recently, Meir has been harvesting his own organic Wheat Grass. It almost sounds like a drug when you do some research of its health benefits. He has been juicing it and passing it along to me and woah what a rush!!!! I call it – Liquid Energy!! (its some serious stuff…)

Watch out for that Cliff! What Cliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiif…..

My biggest pitfall is The Holidays. I don’t have it completely under control, as Tishrei found me eating cake and lots of other goodies that ended up making me feel sick. (feel free to read my Tishrei Report Card with all those exciting details)

Another area that needs improving is working through the emotional difficulty I have when I eat at other people’s houses. Sure, I work my tushy off to plan ahead of time, bring my own food if necessary, and speak to my hosts to make sure there is food I can eat. But there is often a feeling of “why me?” that comes along with it. It’s always a struggle to sit at a table watching everyone enjoying something yummy, and I’m sitting and eating carrots. Yes, I understand the health benefits and acknowledge that in the long run I’m better off without that delicious yummy Trifle dessert, but it doesn’t take away that sometimes it’s frustrating. At some point, I’ll figure out how to get over it. (hey, I never said I was perfect.)

Oh Exercise – my arch nemesis!

Show me someone who loves to exercise, and … that won’t be me Smile

For me, the hardest part of exercise is getting back into the groove. Maybe I’ve taken a few days off because of a partying weekend… or maybe I wasn’t feeling too hot so I skipped my usual Pilates. It’s that “getting back into it” that kills me, and I have yet to find a way to keep it consistent so that exercise is a constant with no long periods of time without it. (tips and suggestions are welcome!)

That pretty much sums up my Health plan for 2012. cow

What’s YOUR new year’s resolution???? Do tell!

 
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Posted by on January 5, 2012 in Physical Health

 

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Was it a good year? A Bad year? Or Option C?

happy new yerarThis past Friday, on the way to our weekly excursion to the local library, my hubby and I chatted about the new year. We discussed what kinds of things we wanted to focus on in 2012 and of course, we talked about how last year measured up.

Something we realized was that in hindsight, 2010 was a pretty crappy year. The hubby left his job, which was a serious and scary decision to make (whether it was his choice to make or not! Smile). On a personal level it kind of sucked as well and we knew that it was time we packed up and left New Jersey. All around 2010 wasn’t such a hot year. Let’s not forget, I began to blog in 2010 which was awesome, but all around when looking at the year in Duby’s life, it ranks pretty low.

2011 however was very different. While we wouldn’t call it an amazing year, we did realize that 2011 was a “transition year.” The beginning months of January and February were spent packing up (and throwing a very fun Superbowl party!) and in March we moved to our new home in Louisville. I would say the remainder of our year was spent unpacking, settling into our new life, finding a new routine and just getting used to this new chapter in our lives. This takes a LOT longer than one would think! Sure, maybe you can unpack your entire house in a couple of weeks, or months, but a move to a new state involves getting to know the streets, the places to shop, your new mailman! We now had the opportunity to create new holiday traditions in our home, how we were going to celebrate Pesach, our birthdays, the high holidays – It really does take time to call a new place home, which to be honest, I’m still learning to do. Quite often, I’ll be talking to someone and absentmindedly say “back home” referring to NJ. It does take time to establish and plant roots and while your boxes may be unpacked, that emotional connection takes time.

Quick side story: My friend asked me when I plan on visiting New York next. Obviously she misses me dearly Smile so I told her, “I plan on visiting when I begin calling Louisville home. And knowing me, I’ll go back to the tri-state area for a visit, and never want to leave!”

So 2011 came and went and thankfully we feel a lot more settled and slowly but surely its beginning to feel like home.

As the hubby and I recalled the different memories of this past year, it dawned on us, that while 2010 was not one of our better years, it was a defining year. We needed 2010 to happen, in order for the 2011 transition year to unfold. Leaving his job in the city meant we were able to expand our horizons and acknowledge we no longer felt forced to live in a 30 mile radius to New York City (something MANY people feel trapped to do). Experiencing hardship in 2010 helped us come to terms with the fact that New Jersey was no longer a healthy place for us to live and needed to plant roots elsewhere.

Was it fun? Not really… but looking back, the hardships and difficulties led way to some wonderful new experiences allowing us to set up shop here in Louisville and it has been glorious. (so far Smile) So in hindsight can we ever really say that a year was “bad?” I suppose not, because we never know what awesomeness can ultimately come from it.

And so with the transition behind us, we can now focus on establishing deeper roots here, and make it a kick ass year!

I’d like to wish everyone a very happy new year – no matter where you are, where you came from, or to where you’re going, may it be your best year yet!!!!

 
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Posted by on January 1, 2012 in Misc. Ramblings

 

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